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4 First-Botn Girl Safest Confidant A 'Model' Daughter Mayor Lindsay's Favorite Mannequin 't keer secrets and 4 men can is a myth, according to psychdogist Joyce M. 'liSiSIW r- Brothers. I I The ability to keep a secret has nothing to do with gender, Dr. Brothers says, but depends on btth order. I Only children and first born children are the most reliable confidants.

Later born children, She reports, never completely lose the I' to older siblings. A secret, however, is safer with a first-qbrn girl than boy. Even if a female tells all, she's not readily believed, 3 says Dr. Brothers. 1 1 Studies of friendship show that people wlo reveal se- crets about themselves usually are better liked than reti- cent individuals.

The noted psychologist also believes 1 that "people who are better liked are more often on the 'P receiving end of personal and intimate' information." I 'j: Surveys also show that more women than men have confidants. A man usually choosey to confide in his wife, i ht wnxion rarelv return the favor and their circle of in- i gel, and Ship 'N Shore. But, oh, wouldn't the latter possibil-ty pose amusing problems? Kathy: "Imagine running down Seventh Avenue for fittings and shows with the Secret Service at your heels? Goodness, think of the dressing rooms!" The absurd vision brings on a semi smile. "Then, again, the scene might be an asset to my career." Probe deeper and get your knuckles rapped. How did she meet her husband? Casually.

At the University of Pennsylvania where they were both students. What they did do on their first date? Ate ice cream. When did they fall in love? What was the turning point in their relationship that suggested a marital liaison. Kathy gapes and mumbles something about this conversation (particularly the last two questions) revealing a little too much and beginning to sound like True Confessions. Enough is enough.

Her private life is nobody's business. Nobody's. Yet: "Richard and I knew we could make it together. We were and are in love. It was either live together or get married.

Marriage seemed more convenient." "They" were delighted. A civil ceremony at Gracie Mansion and reception for 300. A custom- designed, Victorian styled Belgian lace gown from Bergdorf Goodman. Wedding gifts galore including elegant new all -white furniture for their red carpeted apartment in a Brooklyn brownstone. And "The Joy of Cooking" cookbook, which has saved many evening meals from disaster.

"I've mastered veal Parmesan," says Kathy. "Thanks to the hook." Does Mayor Lindsay approve of his daughter being a fashion model? Did he get angry recently when she strutted By MARIAN CHRISTY NEW YORK Mayor John Lindsay's 20- year -old daughter a very pretty girl named Kathy was squirming nervously over tea with lemon in the Plaza Hotel's famous Palm Court. Reluctantly she had agreed to an interview. "They" (she always refers to her parents collectively in the third person) had warned her not to trust a member of the press. All bad buys.

Some very. Some not so bad. But bad just the same. Kathy's assumed image was an obvious experiment. How godawful would this session be? Never mind, she was telling herself.

It was a time to be endured. She struck a detached pose. After all, Kathy is trying to make it big as a $50 an -hour fashion model and headlines are a necessary thrust in the competitive world where lots of girls, far prettier but without the "name," are vying for the same jobs. Besides, Kathy is playing a supporting role. Her husband, Richard Schaffer of West Orange, N.

J. is getting his Ph.D. in economics at New York University and easy modeling money certainly prohibits tough times. Tomorrow, however, perhaps Harvard or M.I.T. will invite him to be a faculty member.

They're hoping. Or, better still, if "they" make the White House next time around, Richard could be an economic adviser. Someone "they" could trust. Not a Cabinet member, of course, but someone "official." What would happen to her just started fashion career? In the former instance she'd simply shuttle between Boston and New York to continue her runway stints for American designer Donald Brooks, Brazilian designer ZuZu An habit ot teiung lmporxam news j. ,4 le male's limited cir- the sharp rise in su- Dr.

Bi ithers, is that silence trous. A wen piacea timato fnonris is consiaeraDiv larivr. Mon rfoiPlnn fewer elnse fnenasniDS. Decause mey are taught as youths that displaying feelings is a femi-i nine trait. By avoiding the possibility of being labeled a sissy in childhood, males often bay for their aloofness i with depression and even mental itness in later years.

model, poised, reluc- Katharine Lindsay Schaffer, pretty tant. Some researchers believe that if cle of intimate friends contributes icide rates among older men. The moral, according to fv mav be colden. but it also dan to befer emotional health, News Journal, Mansfield, Ohio. the runway in a bikini? Has she ever sat down and talked and shared dreams with him? It spills out: "We've never divulged our innermost thoughts and secrets." Oops.

A disclosure. The retreat is instant. Face: Unsmiling. Demeanor: A manufactured coolness bred at Miss Porter's School for Girls in Farmington, and now standing her in good stead. Hair: Long, middle parted, subtly streaked by George Michael, thrown back "in a defiant gesture.

Makeup: Only the admonishing eyes are cosmetized blue shadow streaked across the lids. Kathy feels, quite unnecessarily, a need to defend the Lindsay family image: "They've always been very careful about making time for us to do things together. Time was always made for togetherness. We've skied at Vail, Colorado. It used to be Stowe, Vermont." Why has she turned to modeling? After all, Kathy is studying English at N.Y.U.

she could teach, write or whatever. She lets you know that, since babyhood, she's been exposed to the dramatics of public life and, having the limelight mercilessly zeroed on her, she has been accustomed to facing the public- Then a hint of the insecurity of being a famous man's daughter and trying to establish an individual signature: "Modeling is something I've created myself." The few well chosen words are worth a thousand. Kathy doesn't wear designer clothes. Too expensive. Besides, she thinks a too strong penchant for fashion is a little sick.

Maybe someday the designers, like Donald Brooks, will let her buy wholesale. They haven't so far. She really hasn't been "accepted" yet. When she had a birthday, her husband took her to Greenwich Village and her present was a leather vest with matching pants. Then they went to Bloomingdale's for a skinny ribbed turtle nekk.

Last Christmas he gave her a wide suede belt on which was painted a spoof type portrait of a naked to the waist woman with her man and a child. Was it a hint? Is Kathy planning a family? The interview was over. Half -Time Fan Just Tolerates Football I If III mtmmmmsmitmmm Completely Nev FromCoverto Cover Thovorld -famous BET1Y CROCKER'S 00KB00K V. 10(00 A A 480 ipectacular pages 317jUll-color pictures Mon than 1600 Recipes Thisall-time best seller nowhas a completely new look It's the most beautiful, Iseful cookbook ever special features galtre step-by-step phobs a 32 full-color picture cheese chart corrplete buying guide for neats with diagrams of different cuts crowd size recipes and famous "Cuick 'n Easy" recipes herb and spice chart 1PLUS a whole chapter on Special helps like menu plarping, table settings, freezing tips, outdoor cookng, calorie guide and muchmuch more. Spiraibound 97iX7" $7,5 S695 Hard-buund READMORE BOOKSTORES Downtown Wtst Pork Shipping Confer -Y A 0 November 16, 1971 PAGE 6 drills and release 50,000 pigeons over the playing field, followed by an impromptu melody by the Notre Dame bugle section," "Raindrops Are Falling on My Head." This will send the crowd into chaos.

As the bands leave the field at half time, Howard Cosell will announce, "And now for your entertainment at half time, we present the Michigan Wolverines battling the Fighting Irish of Notre Dame in a game of football. Let's give these men a rousing welcome." But no one notices. Everyone is going out for hot dogs, listening to the Army -Purdue bands on their transistors and speculating as to whether Notre Dame will warm up The Flying Nun playing a harp for the second half. Ritchies Honored Mr. and Mrs.

Donald L. Ritchie, 264 Sherwood were guests of honor Sunday at a family dinner celebrating their 25th wedding anniversary. Mr. Ritchie and the former Maxine Brickley were married in Mansfield Nov. 16, 1946, at St.

John's United Church of Christ. They have three children, Mrs. Don Santmyer, Bellevue, Larry Ritchie and Donald Ritchie, both of whom are serving with the Air. Force. There is one grandson.

Mr. Ritchie 'is employed by the United Telephone Co. of Ohio. confidence can be a she reports. i -mmmsmmmmmmmmm Couple Wed In Michigan Miss Melissa Ann Garrison and George Delbert Greenbank went to Monroe, for their wedding Nov.

5. The 10 a. m. rite united in marriage the daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

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She is a cook at the Convocation Center on the Ashland College campus, and he is head custodian at Osborn School in Ashland. They are residing at 357 East Ninth St. soil condition; protect your i means Tuesday, At Wit's End your band meets Michigan in just a few weeks. What do you think of today's competition?" "Well," says Herb, "despite Michigan's two lip injuries in the trumpet sec- By Erin a Bombeck tion, I think their first draft choice of their lead glockenspiel, Marvin Tinkle, will make the difference. Of course, Notre Dame's tubas are fast.

Watch them when they go around those ends. But mostly, I'm looking forward to seeing Michigan's drill team. You've never seen such backfields in motion until you've seen that "Thank you, Herb," says Howard, "Now on to the battle of the bands." From then on, it will be a melee of action with the Michigan band forming a jar of mustard with a screw lid while playing the Saber Dance and marching in double time. Then the Notre Dame band will counter with a profile of Henry Clay while the drill team kicks to that all time favorite, "Getting To Know You." In the few mad frenzied seconds before half time, the Michigan band will execute a series of precision Natural Mink Stoles From $269 Man Made Fur Coats From Dyed Russian Squirrel Capes and 13 w0 39 We TRIMMED Also It annoys me no end that half-time ceremonies are interrupted by four quarters of football. The other Saturday in a half-time "Salute To Pizza" no" sooner had 1 figured out which members of the band were anchovies and which were pepperoni than these 22 grizzly men trotted out on the field and started playing ball.

Football teams are losing out to half time entertainment by sheer numbers alone. In a pro contest last week I counted a 96 member marching band, a squad of 50 pompon girls, a 40-voice glee club, six majorettes, lour acrobats, and a full grown mountain lion. Their dominance of the game is becoming so evident that it will only be a matter of time until you will switch on your television sets and hear Howard Cosell announce, "Good afternoon, band fans. Today, before we see the Michigan marching band battle the Notre Dame aggregation, we have band fans in the grandstand interviews. With us this afternoon is the musical director of the great Ohio State group, Herb Tinears.

Herb, Giarlecks Wed 25 Years Today Mr. and Mrs. Samuel J. Charleck, 72 Glenbeck Lane, will be honored at a family dinner party, today, which marks their Silver Wedding Anniversary. The former Lucille Campbell and Mr.

Charleck were married Nov. 16, 1946, in the rectory of the Sacred Heart Catholic Church, Terre Haute, by Rev. James McBaron. They are the parents of Mrs. Aurel Ouelletteof Mansfield, and Margaret Ann Charleck, at home.

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